One week ago, our family returned home from our first vacation in quite some time (thank you, COVID). I admit I was a little concerned about how I would be able to eat reasonably healthy during our trip without being perceived as a Debbie Downer by my family....more than I normally am. Full disclosure, I'm training for a bodybuilding contest in November (yikes!) so going completely off the rails wasn't really an option. My husband even asked if I would be able to "enjoy myself" on vacation which I translated to "Can you go out to dinner and partake in a glass of wine?". The answer was YES!
I imagine that I'm not the only person who is working on incorporating some healthy habits in order to keep up my energy level and avoid some chronic lifestyle diseases. So what happens when we are outside of our little bubble at home....surrounded by swim up bars, fancy restaurants or possibly foods that are the specialty of your destination?
I've assembled a few tips to help you feel good and eat well while on vacation. These can also apply to work or other travel.
1) Have some healthy snacks readily accessible. Depending on your method of travel and amenities where you're staying, bring some of your own food. A couple of my favorites are plant-based protein powder as well as rice cakes and PBFit powdered peanut butter. SIDE NOTE- if you think the idea of powdered peanut butter is blasphemous or just plain gross, don't knock it 'til you try it. This is the brand I typically buy https://pbfit.com/product/pbfit-original/#https://pbfit.com/product/pbfit-original/# Other options could be fruit, veggies with hummus, individual portions of nuts, popcorn or crunchy chickpeas, high fiber granola bars, etc. We made a trip to the grocery store when we reached our destination and stocked up on some of these things. Full disclosure, I was traveling with teenagers, so we absolutely had some treats in that haul as well!
2) Plan (a little). Vacation is supposed to be fun and relaxing, so no one wants to spend a ton of time worrying about food. That being said, it's also no fun to come home after vacation feeling completely bloated and sluggish....so it's about balance. Planning could be as simple as having a lighter breakfast and lunch on days when you have big plans for dinner (occasions where you may want to indulge a bit, have a cocktail, a favorite entree, etc.). This doesn't mean you starve yourself all day. Eat when you're hungry and look for foods that are high in water content, fiber, etc. We were fortunate that our hotel bar had hummus and veggies on the menu which I ordered more than once (this is also something you can buy pre-packaged and keep in a cooler or mini-fridge)
3) Eat when you're hungry. Thank you, Captain Obvious. Seems like "duh", but we aren't always great at listening to hunger cues. If your stomach is rumbling or you're getting hangry, then eat something. Don't restrict food when you're physically hungry simply because it's not "time" to eat or you "shouldn't" be eating for some other random reason.
Likewise, if you're not hungry, don't feel obligated to eat simply because it's lunch time or Happy Hour or whatever. This can be tough....as we are social creatures and typically want to join in the fun (food related or otherwise). A possible solution is to enjoy a lighter beverage or snack - therefore honoring your body's hunger signals while enjoying others' company. If you need a break from your friends or family, however, then bypassing a meal may work out perfectly!
4) SLOW DOWN and savor amazing meals, drinks or desserts! When I look up the definition of savor, it says "enjoy it completely". This means putting the fork down occasionally and chewing your food slowly vs. inhaling it like a golden retriever. You may laugh, but I have observed family members scrambling toward an appetizer or the bread basket as if it's the last one on earth. More than likely your meal isn't going to sprout legs and hightail it away from you. Over the course of our recent trip I enjoyed several cocktails, some fantastic Mexican food and a couple of Impossible burgers...and tried really hard to not rush through them.
5) Stop eating when your body says it's comfortably full. This goes hand in hand with #3 as it takes some time (maybe 20 minutes or so) before your belly tells your brain that it's had enough. If you grew up as a member of the "clean plate club", it takes time to become accustomed to leaving a few bites (or half an entree) behind. Your body will tell you when it's had enough. The joy in this process is that you walk away from the meal feeling satisfied but not uncomfortable or queasy. The latter often results in the shame spiral and the "I can't believe I ate that much....I'll never do that again" conversation we have with ourselves. That sucks all the joy out of eating delicious food.
I have noticed even our teenagers will notice when their bodies are sending them messages....even if they don't always listen. I guess teenagers not listening shouldn't come as a huge surprise! Anyway, I heard comments a couple of times during the trip such as, "I feel kind of yucky", "I feel bloated" or "I'm not really hungry....I may not go out to dinner". It can be helpful to acknowledge these feelings in our kids and share with them that it can be hard to stop eating something that's delicious or something that we don't typically have at home. By not making a big deal out of it and not piling on the shame and blame, we can encourage our kids to keep listening to their bodies (and respond to the clues by leaving some food on the plate when full).
It can be a challenge to find the happy place between "What the heck- I'm on vacation! I'll eat whatever I damn well please and as much as I want!" and "I'm only going to eat 'healthy' foods because I don't want to destroy the habits I worked so hard to create". If you plan ahead a little , listen to your body's cues and implement a tip or two mentioned above, you can enjoy amazing food, avoid feeling deprived AND keep your long term healthy habits in check. Baby steps.






















